WRITTEN BY
Sarah Mallin, MA, BA, BSN, RN, IBCLC
Sarah Mallin est une infirmière autorisée (IA) comptant 15 ans d'expérience en santé maternelle et infantile. Elle a accompagné mères et nouveau-nés tant dans les soins au chevet des patients que dans des rôles de direction. Certifiée IBCLC depuis près d'une décennie, elle a débuté sa carrière en unité de soins intensifs néonataux (USIN) avant d'évoluer vers le leadership infirmier, où elle a encadré des équipes pour offrir des soins de haute qualité centrés sur la famille. Sarah a également occupé des postes de direction exécutive au sein d'une startup spécialisée dans le post-partum, où elle a conçu et supervisé un service complet de soins post-partum à New York. Remarque : le texte original (en anglais) a été révisé par des experts ; le présent texte est une traduction en français de cette version.
Written by Sarah Mallin MA, BA, BSN, RN, IBCLC
Weaning is a major transition—for your baby and for you. Supporting yourself physically and emotionally each day helps make the process smoother and more comfortable. Alongside gradual feed reductions, here’s a practical guide for daily life.
Plan for Gradual Weaning
Gradually reducing feeds helps your body and baby adjust comfortably.
Gradual weaning is gentler for both you and your baby. A general approach includes:
- Drop one feeding at a time, ideally the easiest to replace with a bottle, cup, or solid snack.
- Space reductions by several days or a week, giving your body time to naturally adjust milk production. It’s important to also follow your baby’s cues— some adapt quickly while others need a slower pace.
- Last feeds to drop: Often the first morning feed and bedtime feed (a great start and end to your day!)
- For pumping-only moms: Instead of dropping one feed, slowly decrease the time you pump each session, so your body slowly stops making milk. You should do shorter pumps, keeping comfort in mind and see below for how to deal with discomfort.
Prioritize Nutrition and Hydration
Supporting your body with proper nutrition and fluids is essential during weaning.
Your body is still adjusting to changes in milk production, so supporting it with proper nutrition is key.During gradual weaning, you may still need extra calories, though less than during exclusive breastfeeding. Avoid aggressive calorie restriction; your body needs fuel to prevent fatigue, mood swings, and headaches. Most parents will need 200–400 extra calories daily depending on how many feeds are being reduced.
Tips for Nourishment:
- Prioritize protein (eggs, chicken, tofu, legumes) to help repair tissues and maintain energy.
- Include healthy fats (avocado, nuts, olive oil, seeds) to support hormone balance.
- Complex carbohydrates (whole grains, fruits, vegetables) provide steady energy.
- Snack ideas: Greek yogurt with fruit, hummus with veggie sticks, trail mix, nut butter on whole-grain toast.
- Keep water handy—aim for 8–12 cups per day (more if you feel thirsty or are still nursing occasionally).
Foods/Drinks to Limit:
- Highly processed snacks with added sugars—these may spike energy and then crash it, something we want to avoid during this transition.
- Excess caffeine—can contribute to anxiety or interfere with sleep.
Maintain Safe Exercise and Movement
Gentle exercise supports recovery, mood, and overall well-being during weaning.
You can continue your normal exercise routine if you have established one postpartum if you are feeling comfortable; however, modifications may be necessary as your body adjusts. Some find exercise is difficult to do while breastfeeding, so weaning is a great time to start to reintroduce exercise. It can also lift your mood if you are feeling sad or stressed about the weaning process.
Daily Movement Suggestions:
- Short walks (10–20 min) to boost circulation and improve mood.
- Stretching or gentle yoga to relieve tension in your back, shoulders, and neck.
- Pelvic floor exercises to support recovery and core stability.
- Avoid high-impact cardio or heavy weightlifting if your breasts feel engorged or sore and strenuous workouts that leave you exhausted. Your body still needs energy to adjust milk production.
Protect Your Rest and Daily Routine
Weaning can be tiring. Protecting your rest helps regulate hormones and mood.
Tips:
- Give yourself grace and allow yourself to rest as needed.
- Keep a consistent bedtime routine—even small rituals like a warm shower, reading, or light stretches help signal rest.
- Limit multitasking during feeds or pumping—focus on relaxation and connection.
Support Your Emotional Health
Managing emotions helps you and your baby adjust to the weaning transition.
It’s normal to feel a range of emotions during weaning. Journaling, mediation, or talking to a support person can often help improve your mood. Additionally, maintaining boding rituals such as skin-to-skin or gentle play continues to reinforce your bond with your baby. Be sure to check in with yourself and find ways to release stress.
Comfort Strategies and Stress Reduction
Addressing breast discomfort and reducing stress supports a smoother weaning process.
Breast Discomfort
Even gradual weaning can bring soreness, engorgement, or minor leaks. Some comfort tips include:
- Hand express a small amount for relief when needed but avoid full pumping sessions.
- Use cold packs or chilled cabbage leaves to reduce swelling.
- Wear supportive bras and loose clothing.
- Monitor for blocked ducts or signs of mastitis (redness, warmth, severe pain) and seek help if needed.
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Decrease Stress
- Plan meals ahead—batch cooking grains, proteins, and veggies reduces stress.
- Move gently every day—even 10–20 minutes of walking, stretching, or yoga. Start to reintroduce exercise into your daily routine.
- Carry healthy snacks for busy or on-the-go moments.
- Track your moods and energy—noticing patterns can help you adjust nutrition, rest, or exercise.
Takeaway
Daily self-care during gradual weaning isn’t indulgent—it’s essential. By mindfully adjusting nutrition, hydration, movement, rest, and emotional support, you support your body’s natural transition while maintaining a strong, loving connection with your baby. Gentle, consistent routines help you feel grounded and empowered during this big change.
