Welcoming a 3-week-old baby brings tender moments and new routines—late-night feedings, soft cuddles, and sweet coos—all part of your newborn’s early development. In a loving, attentive environment, your baby feels safe and supported through this rapid stage of growth. In this article, we’ll share how to stay connected with your baby and support their emotional and physical development in these early weeks.
3-Week-Old Baby Development
At three weeks old, your baby is getting more alert and responsive to the world around them. However, as a newborn, she is still very much a newborn, but there are subtle, important developmental changes occurring. You might experience a slight increase in the periods of wakefulness, stronger reflexes, and more defined facial expressions. At the same time, your baby is beginning to recognize your voice, your scent, and even your face, all of which establish the foundation for stronger emotional attachment.
Emerging Skills
Besides all of that, here are some of the key developmental skills and behaviors you may start seeing in your 3-week-old:
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Improved Neck Control: While your baby can only lift their head for short periods, they may start trying more during tummy time. A supportive baby carrier like the Momcozy WeeSnug Newborn Baby Carrier can help during this stage by gently supporting your baby’s neck while keeping them close to you.
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- Stronger Reflexes: Primitive reflexes, such as sucking, grasping, and rooting, are strong and necessary for survival.
- Visual Tracking: Babies at this age may begin to track high-contrast objects or faces for a few seconds at a time, particularly when they are very close to the object (8–12 inches).
- Responsive to Sounds: They may startle when you drop something or cry loudly and will relax to a familiar voice or the sound of a gentle lullaby.
- Increased Alertness: Expect slightly longer awake periods—often followed by fussiness when your baby becomes overstimulated or overtired.
These early skills are a sign of healthy development and are wonderful bonding opportunities through touch, voice and gentle play. Small moments of eye contact or soft singing are even able to nurture the growing senses and social awareness of your baby.
Diet & Feeding Schedule

Feeding frequently, every 2 to 3 hours, including overnight. Your baby is still feeding often at three weeks old. Whether you are breastfeeding, pumping, formula feeding, or a combination of all, the main thing is to feed on demand when hunger cues are there, like rooting, sucking motions, or hand-to-mouth motions.
Breastfeeding and Pumping
Babies are growing and are hungrier than normal so that the third week can be especially tough for breastfeeding mothers. Having the right tools makes this stage much smoother.
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Formula Feeding and Mixed Feeding
If you are formula-feeding or supplementing, you can expect approximately 2 to 3 ounces per feeding. As with breastfed babies, the amount will gradually increase as your baby grows. The Superfast Portable Breast Milk & Water Warmer for Travel is a lifesaver for nighttime feeds or travel, keeping bottles and milk at the right temperature.
Feeding Tips for Week 3
- Watch for hunger cues rather than sticking to a rigid schedule.
- To help avoid gassiness, burp your baby halfway through and after each feed.
- If you are unsure about intake or diaper output, keep a feeding log.
- Make sure to stay hydrated and nourished, especially if you are breastfeeding or pumping.
Sleeping
Sleep is still unpredictable in this case, but it’s normal at 3 weeks old. Your newborn will likely sleep a lot, about 14 to 17 hours a day, in short stretches during the day as well as at night. Their internal clock (circadian rhythm) is not yet fully developed, so they will expect their sleep to occur in 2–4 hour cycles, with frequent interruptions for feedings, diaper changes or other comfort needs. Here’s what to expect:
- No set schedule yet: Your baby may sleep more during the day and wake more at night. It will gradually shift over the next few weeks.
- Light and active sleep: You’ll notice lots of twitching, facial expressions, and movement—this is called active (REM) sleep and is totally normal.
- Frequent wake-ups: Hunger and discomfort can cause frequent awakenings. Use this time for quick, gentle responses rather than stimulating interaction.
Tips for Better Sleep
- Create a calming bedtime routine: A warm swaddle, lullabies or rocking in a gentle motion can be soothing.
- Practice safe sleep: Your baby should always sleep on their back on a firm, flat surface with nothing in the bed that could suffocate them, such as pillows, blankets and toys.
- Day vs. night cues: Keep daytime feeds and play bright and active and nighttime calm and dim to help their body clock start adjusting.
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Babywearing naps: If your baby resists crib sleep, try the WeeSnug Newborn Baby Carrier for safe, comfortable naps on the go or during fussy periods.
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It’s common for sleep to feel all over the place at this stage. Trust that your baby is doing exactly what they need and that more predictable patterns will come soon.
Crying & Soothing

Crying is your baby’s main way of letting you know he needs something; for example, he needs to be fed, changed or to sleep. Your baby may cry more through growth spurts or if she feels overstimulated or has an upset tummy at this point.
Common Reasons for Crying
- Hunger or needing to feed
- Dirty diaper or discomfort
- Feeling tired but struggling to fall asleep
- Gas or mild tummy pain
- Need for closeness and comfort.
Soothing Techniques
- Swaddle your baby snugly to recreate the feeling of the womb.
- Gentle rocking or swinging motions are soothing to a restless baby.
- These are soft sounds that resemble white noise or lullabies, which remind the baby of the sounds he heard in utero.
- Skin–to–skin contact helps with bonding between the baby and parent, and both the baby and parent become calmer..
- If your baby is fussy, try giving them a warm bath or massaging them.
Remember to know that sometimes it’s okay to take a break and ask for help when the crying becomes too much. Your calm presence is one of the best comforts your baby needs.
Bowels
By 3 weeks, breastfed babies are usually having 3 or 4 wet diapers a day and several yellow, soft stools. Formula-fed babies may have fewer, firmer stools. Stools that are soft and easy to pass are normal. Slight straining is common but should not cause pain.
If your baby seems uncomfortable while pooping, has hard stools, blood in the stool, or has diarrhea, contact your pediatrician.
Bathing a 3-Week-Old Baby

Your baby needs gentle care during bath time at 3 weeks old. You should give your baby a sponge bath until the umbilical cord stump falls off and the area has fully healed. Clean their face, neck, hands, and diaper area with warm water and a soft cloth. Ensure that the stump remains dry to prevent infection and expedite healing.
After the stump heals, you can go back to normal baths in a small baby tub with lukewarm water. Always test the bathwater temperature before placing the baby in the tub, as the ideal temperature is 38°C (100°F). Never leave your baby unattended – not even for a minute – and support your baby’s head and neck with your hand. Any soothing factor, such as a gentle splash or soft singing, can make bath time calm and soothing for your baby.
Common Ailments
It’s normal for some common ailments in babies that are 3 weeks old as they adapt to life outside the womb. Although most are mild and manageable, having an idea of what to expect can help give you the confidence to care for your new baby.
- Baby acne: Baby acne can appear on a newborn’s cheeks, forehead or chin as tiny red or white bumps. Maternal hormones cause it, but it clears up on its own within a few weeks.
- Diaper Rash: Red irritated skin in the diaper area from wetting too often or from sensitivity to the type of wipes or diapers used. Change diapers as soon as possible and let the baby have some diaper-free time. Diaper rash can also be prevented using gentle barrier creams.
- Gassiness and Colic: Newborns tend to have gassiness and colic as they swallow air while feeding. Your baby may be fussy or experience crying spells due to colic. To help with gas, burp the baby during and after feedings and give gentle tummy massages or gentle leg movements.
- Nasal Congestion: Newborns have tiny, narrow nasal passages that can easily become congested by dry air, mild colds and irritants. If your baby has any mucus, try gently clearing it with a bulb syringe or saline nasal drops to help them breathe more easily.
If your baby has a fever, is vomiting constantly, cannot eat, or is very lethargic, it could be an infection or something else, and you should call your pediatrician immediately.
Activity for Your 3-Week-Old Baby

At three weeks, your baby wakes up for longer periods, and you can start introducing gentle sensory games to help your baby get stronger. Try to put your baby on their stomach a few times each day for some short periods. With this, babies can strengthen their neck, shoulder, and upper muscles, which is necessary for head lifting, rolling over, and crawling.
Since the baby’s vision improves with high-contrast black-and-white images, using black-and-white toys or pictures in the early days will be helpful. Singing lullabies, whispering, or making any noises that help your baby listen to your voice and begin learning language very early on.
These activities should not last too long, be supervised by someone, and be enjoyable for the child. Notice if your baby appears tired or overexcited, and adjust what you’re doing because of this. They are both uplifting for the baby and create a solid foundation for their growth and development, fostering a connection with others.
FAQs
Should I wake my 3-w+eek-old baby to feed?
It’s usually suggested that you gently wake your baby if they are asleep for longer than this, particularly if they are premature or small, so you can make sure they are getting enough milk. Always check with your pediatrician as to what’s best for your child.
Is week 3 the hardest with a newborn?
The third week is generally challenging for many parents because babies start experiencing growth spurts, change patterns, and become more fussy. These are transitional phases that usually improve with time; both the baby and the parents go through them, but these phases are temporary.
Do newborns get fussier at 3 weeks?
Yes, it’s true that at three weeks, newborns become fussier because their senses are developing, changes in the digestive system occur, or they need more comfort and closeness. Gentle, soothing, and consistent responses to their discomfort can help alleviate it.
Conclusion
Baby’s third week is a week of growth, bonding and learning for you both. Routines may still feel unpredictable, but with every cuddle, every feed, and every time you soothe them, you are growing your baby. Use your instincts, use helpful tools, and enjoy these newborn days while you can. With love, patience and the right support, you are building a solid foundation for your baby’s healthy future.